I noticed that Iceland’s view of sex and nudity was a little strange to some people.

So last night I went out with a group of friends and talked to a British friend, and I should write a blog about how icelanders open up. (this is obviously a good idea because everyone wants to read it and I have a lot to say on this subject.)

Friends a few times been to Iceland (and other parts of the world), when he and I and my female friends in Iceland, he felt very happy, we talk in English, let him understand that our sex lives. Apparently, my Icelandic friend was angry with a man she was sleeping with and tried to fall asleep again, but didn’t hear it, and then a man walked up to us and said, “that’s him!

Now, I don’t remember this particular event, probably because it’s one of the normal things I talk about my sex life almost every day (or lack it!). . Having sex with my friends, however, in the past three years, I live in England, I realized that no matter where I travel, may be I called “crazy” one of the reasons: icelanders attitude towards sex, and naked.

See also: reykjavik nightlife and mating or nightlife.

When I tell foreigners they are likely to be beaten by Icelandic women, they often cover their mouths. For me, Iceland and women, it’s normal. Almost every time I’m attracted to someone, I give him a drink or talk to him. And because the country has the same attitude towards men and women, it is considered completely normal. Women can do what anyone can do. Why don’t they?

Perhaps Icelandic men are not the best women and have little interest in women (though I think they may be getting better in recent years). Living and traveling abroad suggests otherwise.

Some now think it means Icelandic girls can’t afford to get into trouble. They’re not! If so, there are as many men as there are bitches. We won’t because she likes and a man (or woman) and a woman who is called a “slut” lie, we won’t because like to sleep with a woman (or man) and man as “bitch”. They may have high sexual charges and/or bad luck, so they sleep with many partners. I mean, if you meet someone who can’t make you happy in bed, it’s probably not a lasting relationship. This is true for both men and women. Then you move on. It’s all about equality.

If you are lucky, before you too much damage, you will meet the “special” – but if you don’t do it, so when you meet the person, we know exactly what you want to do no harm in bed!

Sex and naked

As a British woman, I have noticed that Iceland has a different attitude towards women. Because I (and other Icelandic girls I met here) openly discuss our sex lives with friends/classmates/acquaintances, some people think we have more sexual partners. Men here spend most of their time insecure or afraid of strong, confident, and responsible women – but some people like it and accept it completely. Sometimes I’m called “un-feminine,” such as opening a beer bottle with a lighter and drinking a glass of wine instead of a “more feminine drink,” such as a glass of wine. If I turn on the cigarette lighter in Iceland, I’d rather get an impressive look from the people around me, and one might ask what’s going on.

Icelandic sex?

Iceland, a few years ago, the airline made an advertising campaign, using the words to Iceland country notorious sex apathy of different meanings, in Iceland “in reykjavik, one night stands” as a slogan, or “imagine a dirty weekend in Iceland? “(there’s also a picture of people in a blue lagoon with mud on their faces.) This is mainly aimed at men and depicts Icelandic women as hot dogs. Feminists are crazy and the public is angry about the whole movement. This left a false impression on foreigners. (I just read an article about the vines – all of things happened about Iceland, english-language newspaper – about this – also pointed out that the average age of icelanders began making love is the lowest in the world, has a high proportion of sex toys, is likely to take their bed).

A few years later, an Icelandic women participated in the Oprah Winfrey Oprah Winfrey show, talking about the night spent in Iceland is “normal”, and there are many single mother, this is normal, not disdain. She also points out that our mothers to benefit from Iceland’s female labor force is the highest in the world, more than 60% of college students are female, almost all of the Icelandic women is their choice of the working class, etc., but somehow, we recognize that there is a night is obvious. I think this is a concern of the foreign media. This should not be a big problem. Now, I’m not saying that everyone has a night stand or even a night stand, but sometimes people contact and they happen.

Now, that doesn’t mean all Icelandic women are dalits, or that they sleep with anyone. I can’t emphasize that. Just because I (and other Icelandic girls) can talk freely about sex – doesn’t mean I (or they) sleep with anyone or everyone! After the Icelandic airstrike – and still occasionally today – there will be tourists who think all they have to do is show up at a bar and buy a nice girl a drink. Clearly not. You still need to be smart, attractive, interesting, respectful, and all other women (and men) will be attracted.

Sex and naked

I remember the story of an Icelandic friend in London. She had a boyfriend who went out with her friends. Her friend was in cahoots with a man, and her boyfriend’s friend told her, “your friend looks very passionate. Are you passionate? “So she said,” if you’re talking about sex, yes, I’m interested in sex, I just don’t like having sex with you. “To his credit, he is very satisfied with the answer directly, they continue to be a partner to speak, she must be explained that when it comes to sexual icelanders things very frank, but when it comes to sex.

Iceland’s naked

I personally think it’s a good thing, we love sex, we’re not afraid to talk about it, we’re not crazy about being naked. Nudity is not necessarily a personality thing – it can, obviously, but not always. I think it’s a very normal nudity – in the media and magazines and in the society’s “perfect” fitness model, everybody wants to look like an hourglass, it’s a skew.

Besides, don’t read “naked utopia” like Iceland, where everyone walks naked and there is no discussion except gender. People usually only in gender reykjavik, swimming pool or country other swimming pool in the shower wash, may also have enough sunshine weather in a year, unable to enjoy sunbathing in public places. In fact, in March 2015, there was a #freethenipple campaign for women (no?). . Sunbathe in public at will (even during breastfeeding). So, topless naked women were a normal thing in the ’70s, and in the’ 90s, or’s, the problem became taboo – but now that taboo has been broken?

Now, after living in the UK for a few years, I realize that most people in the UK have a lot of nudity and are not happy with nudes or nudes. For example, I went to the Erasmus project in Estonia with a group in my class. They only took public showers in our dormitory, but the men and women were separated. Now, all the British girls are scared, and in the first month, they wear bikinis, even if there are other girls around. At last they understood, and made no fuss about it.

At another time, I went to London to watch the musical “dance”, in which the actor stripped off his clothes and led the lady into love (all hostesses were advised – moans and moans, etc.). He took off his clothes and kissed the girl. Among the uncomfortable people, he could not hear the phone, giggled and heard the rumble.

One of the reasons, I think, is that britons have never seen anyone naked other than their own bodies, the naked bodies on television and their sexual partners. They don’t grow up thinking it’s okay to be naked in other people’s bodies – they don’t have to bathe after practice, they go home to bathe!

Sex and naked

If you’ve been to Iceland or any other blog and read this site, you’ve probably seen it, and one of the things you need to do is adapt to the country while bathing before you go to the swimming pool. If you go to a hot pool/river/pond in the middle of a country, it’s perfectly appropriate to wear Adam’s clothes (or eve). I remember, when I grow up, I will go with my family in the autumn harvest berries, if it is a sunny day, when my mother picked berries, nobody around her hair a tan. Traveling as a teenager in a summer house, there are always people who strip naked, expose themselves to snow, ice, or cold water, and warm up in a jacuzzi.

So the bottom line: nudity in Iceland is normal and perfectly acceptable. People have sex. Most of the time people like to have sex. People talk about sex. The first time I met a good friend, she came to my dinner party and began to vividly describe the fake penis she saw in a sex shop earlier in the day. Five minutes later, she introduced herself to me. The first time I saw him, another good friend of mine was naked at the party, doing a little nude dance on the table. (this may not apply to everyone in Iceland, I may only have friends, especially naked or frank.)

Now, you may also find it very strange (depends on where you come from – I found the scandinavians, finns and estonians and icelanders share this thing – may be naked to sauna) – but in Britain, when people talk about drugs, they found that people like relaxed and at ease. To me, this is strange. First time I met all kinds of people (in a business/party/school/workshops), told me that they received over the weekend ecstasy, cocaine and other things, and they asked me if I wanted to be a coke. I haven’t seen anyone in Iceland for the first time. So I think it’s normal for icelanders to talk about your sex life, and in the UK, people think you’re mixed. It is normal for the British to talk about drug abuse in Iceland.

Now, if people are sensitive to nudity and sexuality, and like to keep their stories and opinions secret, that’s fine with me. When open sex is rated as a woman with a woman, I don’t like this kind of view, and mentioned degrading comments (shameless woman, shameless woman, etc.) – these comments seem to be always refers to women rather than men. Hope that through TV shows like “sex and the city”, women are more likely to talk about their sex life in different parts of the world, and instead of being called a “bitch” easy, but because I’m confident and know what you want and how to get it, in order to achieve it. That’s what we see in Iceland.

Needless to say, it goes without saying:

Practice safe sex in this world, enjoy it, try and love everything, don’t take it too seriously! 

The ps blog became more popular than I had expected – some people misunderstood it and sent me some (strange) questions. Most people are positive and I want to thank you for your lovely feedback! 🙂

But I updated it just to make it clear: this is my own experience, not for everyone in the family. Just because I think nudity is normal doesn’t mean I’m a one-night stand or a party or cheating. I am an inner romantic, and my relationship rules first, second and third are not cheating. Therefore, only here to find “how to score” tips, either learn to respect girls, or leave!

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